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Obituary of Delphia Ann Chow

Delphia Ann Chow, 92, of Fort Scott, passed away Friday, August 8, 2025, in Leawood, Kansas. She was born on March 23, 1933, in Mullens, West Virginia, the daughter of Willard Lee Basham and Sinda Florence (Shrewsbury) Basham. She married Stanley L.Y. Chow, M.D. on February 21, 1953, in Mullens, West Virginia; he preceded her in death on May 11, 1998.

Ann graduated from Fort Scott Community College, Nursing School, and was a practicing nurse for many years. Ann loved to sing and was an active member in the St Mary’s Catholic Church Choir for many years. She was also a member of the Diamond Community Church while residing in Fort Scott. She renewed her baptism at Austin Ridge Bible Church in Austin, Texas at the age of 90.

Survivors include her children: Nancy Thompson, Roseburg, Oregon, Patricia Chow-Dewey, London, England, Susanne Chow, M.D., Leawood, Kansas, Shirley Chow, M.D., Georgetown, Texas, Carolyn Chow, Sherman Oaks, California and Frank Michael Chow, M.D., Austin, Texas; twenty grandchildren: Christopher Thompson, Benjamin Thompson, Nicholas Thompson, Kathryn Chivarsky, Nicole Grierson, Tate Dewey, Alicia Wolfe, Andrea Bone, Alexander Rose, Lauren Richardson, Emily Richardson, Michael Elmendorf, Adam Stockhoff, Allison Chow, Mia Chow, Erin Sauter, Morgan Sauter, Catherine Sauter, Gina Dixon and Megan Dixon; and eighteen great-grandchildren. Ann was preceded in death by her husband, Stanley LY Chow. M.D., her parents; two brothers, Roy Basham, and Willard Basham, Jr.; five sisters, Bonnie Troup, Orean Kirk, Dorothy Hatcher, Beulah Rowe, and Edna Umile; a son, Gary Lee Dixon; a daughter, Michelle Chow-Sauter, M.D. and a granddaughter, Amber Rose.

Funeral services are scheduled for 10:00 a.m. Saturday, August 16, 2025, at the Konantz-Cheney Funeral Home, with burial following at the St. Mary’s Cemetery, in Fort Scott. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 6:00 pm-7:00 p.m. on Friday evening, August 15, 2025. Memorial contributions can be directed towards the American Cancer Society and World Central Kitchen, and may be left in the care of the Konantz-Cheney Funeral Home, 15 W. Wall Street, P.O. Box 309, Fort Scott, KS, 66701.  Friends and family may sign the online guest book and share memories at www.konantzcheney.com.

Celebrate the National Park Service’s Anniversary at Fort Scott NHS

 

Fort Scott, Kan. – Fort Scott National Historic Site celebrates the anniversary of the National Park Service, Monday, August 25, 2025, with a series of family-friendly games, trivia, a scavenger hunt throughout the day, fort tours at 10 am and 1 pm, and a musical and a performance by the 1st Infantry Division Band from Fort Riley. Activities are appropriate for visitors of all ages and abilities.

 

Fort Scott National Historic Site will host the 1st Infantry Division Band from Fort Riley beginning at 6 pm. The performance will be on the bricks in front of the Post Hospital/Visitor Center. Bring your lawn chair to ensure seating.

 

In 1916, President Woodrow Wilson signed the “Organic Act” which stated that the purpose of the newly formed National Park Service was “to conserve the scenery and the natural and historic objects and wildlife therein, and to provide for the enjoyment of the same in such manner and by such means as will leave them unimpaired for the enjoyment of future generations.” What better way to celebrate the Park Service’s anniversary than with a fun-filled day in your national park with the family!

 

Fort Scott and Fort Riley have a connection. Fort Scott closed operations in 1853, the same year Fort Riley was opened. The Fort Scott Dragoons and the Fort Riley Cavalry both shared portions of the same mission at different times, providing protection on the Oregon and Santa Fe Trails.

 

Historical Note of Interest about the band: One notable example of the use of bands in Vietnam was the “Thunder Road” incident, which received national publicity. Major General John Hay, Commanding General of the 1st Infantry Division, ordered his band to march down “Thunder Road” for a distance of one mile while playing the march Colonel Bogey. This road was critical to the division but was under the control of a North Vietnamese Army regiment located less than a mile away. The enemy confused by the action withdrew from the area. The 1st Infantry Division Band fulfilled a remarkable combat mission without firing a shot.

 

Fort Scott National Historic Site is one of 430+ nationally significant sites and is truly the story of America growing up.

 

-NPS-

 

Credit Photo as: Image of NPS arrowhead, 1st Infantry Division Band’s logo, and A Company of the 1st Dragoons guidon.

 

Letter to the Editor: Nick Graham

First, Stabilize The Patient

My wife loves TV medical dramas, from ER to House to most recently The Pitt.  If it’s an hour long show that takes place in a hospital, chances are she’s seen every episode.  These TV shows more often than not begin with some poor shlep being wheeled into the ER, afflicted with some sort of massive physical trauma that the main characters have to spend the remainder of the episode trying to save.

I think our Bourbon County government is like one of those patients right now, more specifically I liken it to someone who has been sprayed with machine gun fire and is bleeding out from a million different holes.  I know a small minority might dispute this fact, but our County now has an independent board made up of bankers, CPAs, and other financial pros, and they’ve all pored over the numbers and come to the same conclusion – Bourbon County is just about broke.

Now, in all of these TV shows, the first thing the nurses and doctors try to do is stabilize the patient.  If they don’t do that, and some well meaning but young, inexperienced doc or nurse tries some invasive procedure on the patient before stabilizing them, then the patient “crashes” and dies.  From watching recent County Commission meetings, I fear that in their rush to “fix” the bleeding, our new Commissioners, who I think have nothing but the best intentions, may end up crashing the patient.  To take the medical analogy a step further, when I watch the Commission meetings, I keep waiting to hear the word “stabilize”, but more often than not I get the feeling they’re gearing up for mass amputation, which I believe would be a fatal mistake.

The learning curve of a County Commissioner is a pretty steep one.  It’s a unique job and it takes time to learn the ins and outs of each department, what they do, and who does what.  This is not something that can be accomplished in six or eight months – it’s just not.  Trust has to be built, relationships have to be built, and only then can you get a good feel for how the machine operates, and in turn how it might operate better and more efficiently.

At the beginning of this year, morale in our County government was pretty much in the toilet.  Events I won’t get into here, along with talk of doom and gloom, outsourcing, and cuts have sunk that morale even further, and at this point we’re gonna need to call Roto-Rooter to get it back up.  That’s not to say these things shouldn’t be discussed – every rural county with a declining population is, and these are conversations that need to be had, but not as topics sprung with a few days notice on an unsuspecting workforce.  I genuinely believe all three of our County Commissioners are acting in good faith on what they think is best for Bourbon County, but change is a slow and tedious process in local government, and trying to rush change usually leads to disaster.

There is a LOT to fix, and by the time all is said and done, Bourbon County may come out looking more like Robocop than the county it first entered the ER as, but that process has to be given time.  To our Commissioners, I say this – go slow.  I’m not saying rubber stamp every budget request that comes through this year, I’m just saying get the lay of the land, give yourselves some time to learn the job and build relationships, and then make the process of improving efficiency a bottom-up effort instead of a top down mandate.

You won’t accomplish this by Christmas – it’s not humanly possible, and it’s going to be a multi-year process.  Study our neighboring counties that are doing well and see how their offices are staffed and run – the beautiful thing about local government is that there is no problem out there that somebody hasn’t run into before and learned how to solve.  That being said, there are no quick fixes, at least ones that won’t leave the patient worse off than they were when they first got wheeled into your Operating Room.  Right now that patient is in a precarious state – what you do next will determine whether we’re headed for recovery or a crash.  The good news is that, contrary to what you might read on Facebook, you have time.

Nick Graham
Uniontown, KS

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Chamber Coffee is Hosted by Fort Scott Dental on August 14

Join us for Chamber Coffee

hosted by

Fort Scott Family Dental

Thursday, August 14th

8am

2 N. Main St.

We hope to see you there!

The Fort Scott Area Chamber of Commerce invites members and guests to a Chamber Coffee hosted by Fort Scott Family Dental, 2 N. Main St., this Thursday, August 14th, at 8am. Coffee, juice, and refreshments will be served, and attendees may register to win a special drawing.

Fort Scott Family Dental is excited to welcome the community to this week’s Chamber Coffee. Since their last hosting, the practice has grown while continuing to support downtown happenings and events. They are now accepting new patients from Fort Scott and the surrounding area, offering a full range of services from cleanings, exams, fillings, extractions, crowns, and bridges, as well as oral surgery options like implants and surgical extractions. Plans are also underway to expand services and update insurance networks.

Their friendly, knowledgeable team is always ready to answer questions and help clients achieve their best smile.

For more information, contact the Chamber of Commerce at (620) 223-3566. Visit the Events Calendar and category of Chamber Coffees on fortscott.com for upcoming locations.

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Fort Scott Family Dental Facebook Page!

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Two Girls and A Pair of Shoes by Carolyn Tucker

 

 

 

Keys to the Kingdom

By Carolyn Tucker

Two Girls and a Pair of Shoes

 

On my way home from Missouri I decided to stop at one of my favorite shoe stores. Sometimes I’m just looking, but on this particular day I was shopping for a specific style: dressy black shoes with medium-height heel and open toe. It didn’t take long to find the perfect pair, but my size was AWOL. I grabbed a sample shoe and found Jesslyn, the sweet young clerk, and asked if perhaps a size 6 could be in the storage room. She smiled and courteously responded that everything they had was out on the shelf. We visited for a few minutes about how cute these shoes were and then she said something I’d never heard before from a shoe-store clerk: “They are really pretty shoes, in fact, I have a black pair and a white pair of them at my house that I’ve worn only once for a high school special-occasion evening. I’m pretty sure at least one of them is a size 6. Would you be interested in buying them?” I said, “Yes! If it‘s the black pair — I don‘t need the white ones.” Jesslyn told me it was actually time for her break, so she’d ask the manager if she could run home to get the shoes for me. She got the green light and off she drove.

 

I meandered around the store waiting and thinking about how this was evolving into a very unusual story. Very shortly, Jesslyn zoomed into the parking lot and walked in toting the size 6 black shoes that I’d set my heart on. We had previously agreed on a price, so I laid the money down and both of us had a win-win for the day! I couldn’t leave without a taking a picture of the three of us smiling, standing behind the counter. I told the girls  they could be sure to find this story in their local newspaper — because it’s just too good and off-the-wall not to share!

 

I pray about everything, whether it‘s big or little. But I don‘t remember praying for a pair of black shoes. However, they were an insignificant secret desire of my heart. Over the years, the following scripture has proven to be true in my life: “Find your delight in the Lord. Then He will give you everything your heart really wants” (Psalm 37:4 NIRV). After experiencing several weeks of stress associated with totaling a vehicle, I think the odd blessing of finding these shoes was simply God’s way of reminding me that He cares about even the little things in my life.

 

You may think I’m an oddball; you may think I’m wacky. You may believe in coincidence; I do not. I see God’s fingerprints all over this encounter of the bizarre kind. It started with me simply asking, against all odds, “Do you have a size 6 in the backroom?” I already knew the answer, but something prompted me to ask anyway. And now you know the rest of the story.

 

There are definite perks that come to believers from delighting ourselves in the Lord. And many times God sends these unique blessings through people. These two girls were sweet as sugarcane but God can cause even grumpy people to give us favor. He knows the number of hairs on our head so He certainly cares about our desires, no matter what size they are. In my case, a 6.

 

The Key: God used Jesslyn and Donna to bring my heart’s desire to reality! I was still smiling as I drove across the Vernon/Bourbon County line.

Parents, Children, and Tantrums

 

 

Tara Soloman-Smith, Family and Wellness Agent, Sunflower District of Kansas State University’s Extension Office. Submitted photo.

 

It’s not summer without kid’s games at the local county fair!  My four-year-old excitedly participated in the pig contest.  When his attempts to catch the animal failed, he wailed!  Are you like me as a parent, and try to make a tantrum stop?

 

Researchers at Berkeley University’s Greater Good Science Center have studied the meltdowns that can be frequent occurrences when children (and their parents) are frustrated and stressed.  The science behind tantrums tells us they aren’t breakdowns of behavior—they’re breakthroughs of communication.

 

Understanding what’s really happening during meltdowns can help us respond to our children in a way that supports them… and makes things easier for us, too!

 

Root Causes of Tantrums

Tantrums aren’t defiance—they’re a child’s way of expressing unmet needs. They often stem from:

  • Frustration with independence: Kids get upset when they can’t complete tasks just beyond their ability.
  • Limits and authority: Toddlers react strongly to boundaries, which may feel unfair to them.
  • Sharing and social struggles: Young children lack the development to truly share, leading to meltdowns.
  • Unmet basic needs: Hunger, tiredness, or lack of connection can quickly trigger tantrums.

Understanding these root causes helps reduce tantrum frequency and improves communication.

 

Is there a better way to respond to tantrums?

  1. Stay Regulated yourself. Practice an exercise such as a breathing technique.  Reframe your mindset by stating ‘This isn’t personal, my child is dysregulated’.  This does not excuse difficult behavior but helps us respond with understanding rather than a surge of frustration ourselves.

 

  1. Don’t punish, but don’t give in. Avoid dismissing your child’s emotions or punishing them during a tantrum. They’re not being defiant—they’re overwhelmed and need your help to calm down. Stay calm yourself; reacting with anger only escalates things and puts unfair pressure on your child to manage your emotions too.

 

  1. Validate your child’s experience.
    After a tantrum, wait until your child is truly calm before talking. Use the Validation Ladder:

Be present: Give full attention, no distractions.

Reflect: “You felt angry when we left the playground?”  This tells your child their feelings matter.

Contextualize: “You were excited to play, so it makes sense you’re upset.”

Propose: Try digging a little deeper.  “Maybe you’re also worried we won’t come back soon?”

Empathize: “That sounds really disappointing.”  Be sure your voice tells you really mean what you are saying.

Take Action:  Think about what you could do differently.  “Next time, I’ll give a 5-minute warning.”

 

Validation helps kids feel understood—not indulged—and reduces future meltdowns.

 

  1. Build support over time.
    As kids grow, they can express how they want support. Use calm moments to reflect patterns or offer choices: “Do you want me close or to give space when you’re upset?”

 

  1. Stay curious.
    Look beyond behavior to understand the need or emotion driving it.

 

Parenting is not easy and it’s probably the most important job you can have.  I hope to navigate it well by continually learning.  For more information contact Tara Solomon-Smith, [email protected], 620-244-3826.

 

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Kansas State University Agricultural Experiment Station and Cooperative Extension Service

Bourbon County Coalition Meeting Minutes of August 6

Bourbon County Inter-Agency Coalition

General Membership Meeting Minutes

 

August 6, 2025

 

 

  1.  Welcome: Twenty-two members representing nineteen agencies attended the meeting held at the Scottview Apartments Conference Room.

 

 

  1.  Member Introductions and Announcements:
  • Jennyifer Gum-Fowler -Fort Scott Public Library
  • Alyssa Hess- Safehouse Pittsburg
  • Anna Salas – Safehouse Pittsburg
  • Theresa Amershek – Child Exchange & Visitation Center (Safehouse)
  • Patty Simpson – Fort Scott Housing Authority – There is currently a waiting list for all sizes of units, but still taking applications
  • Sandy Haggard – K-State Extension – Offering food safety “OWL Hour” program. Focused on cooking for one or two.  Takes place at Fort Scott Public Library on Wednesdays at 10 AM.   The Americorps grant was renewed and will be starting back up soon.
  • Jalaine Davis – Core Community Coach- The new phase of Core Community will be starting on September 9th.
  • Dave Gillen – Beacon – Provide food and hygiene items to individuals in need. Can provide a limited number of taxi passes and gas vouchers.  The Beacon served 399 families in July ($3,800 in assistance).  Numbers are increasing steadily. Served 8 new families last month.
  • Tammy Alcantar- Crawford County Health Department – Teen pregnancy grant has changed and will go back to MCOs. Tammy is still doing the  Baby and Me Tobacco Free program.  Prenatal class offered for Bourbon, Crawford, and Cherokee counties. Started Monday, offers learning and resources for expecting moms.  All pregnant moms can participate.
  • Dee Dee LeFever- Greenbush Early Learning Services -Greenbush provides Parents as Teachers, Birth to 3 programs. Also hosts parent training modules.  Dee Dee is now part of the Autism team.  A new  PAT parent educator has been hired for Bourbon County.
  • Craig Campbell Good Neighbor Action Team – GNAT is averaging one wheelchair ramp build per week. Linn and Crawford counties have been keeping them busy.  Working with the codes department on code violations. GNAT will help homeowners recover overgrown properties, and can help paint houses.  Working with FS City to develop a list of wish-list properties that volunteers can help with.  Craig also works with individuals who need court-ordered volunteer hours.  Check the GNAT Facebook page for more information.
  • Heather Shepherd – School-based Community Health Worker – Works with students and families. Heather can help students and their families find resources, help with insurance, parenting, about anything.
  • Kathy Romero – Angels Home Health -Angels covers several counties in SEK. They can provide any kind of home health services.  Provide programs designed for a wide range of individuals and their needs.
  • Belinda Pitts – Mental Health Liaison – USD 234 – Belinda helps connect children with mental health resources.  She works with families to build trust and supports teachers by helping kids in the classroom.
  • Christa Vaughn – SEK Mental Health – Case managers and getting ready to go back to school. Fully staffed at USD 234.
  • Cherri Walrod – K-State Community Health Worker – Cherri helps individuals with food, assistance applications, and works with families with special needs children. Her position is grant-funded through the end of this year.
  • Shelby Moore- Families Together FAST Program – Shelby helps families navigate the special education process.
  • Michelle Stevenson – Early Childhood Coordinator – Michelle works with families to monitor the development of children from prenatal through 6 years old. Her program encourages and equips parents to help children meet their developmental milestones.  Parent/Child Cafe last week was very successful, a KU grant made family stipends possible.
  • Janelle Tate – Early Childhood Block Grant
  • Kelli Mengarelli – Early Childhood Block Grant – Works with preschools, child care centers, and home providers in 6 counties.

 

 

 

  1.  Program: 

 

Pamela Thompson – Family Resource Center – Family Strong Community Outreach Liaison

 

Pamela and the Family Strong program work with family resource advocates to find resources for families.  The program is funded through a grant from KU, one of only 6 in the country.  Pamela has been working with USD 234 for the last two years.  The district and area partners have developed a student support team to directly impact students and families.  Pamela has worked with Core Communities and the Kansas Children’s Service League to develop a discussion (training) to train volunteers in the community.  Hope into Action Bourbon County Resilience Summit will take place  September 2nd from 6:30-7:30, and September 6th from 9:00-4:00 at Fort Scott Church of the Nazarene.  The discussion will focus on ACES, Hope Scale, and building Resilience.  Organizers are encouraging any and all families and professionals to attend.  Pamela offered a special thank you to HBCAT for offering some radio time to promote the Hope Into Action Summit.  There will be a resource table at the September 6th meeting if anyone would like to bring goodies to share for the table.

 

The Family Strong program works to prevent abuse and neglect of children.  Anyone 0-18 can qualify for services through Family Strong. Stephanie Breckenridge is the contact person for Bourbon County. KU sensemaking sessions have been taking place this summer.  Everyone is encouraged to share their story, the good, bad, and ugly.

 

 

  1.  Open Forum:  Nothing further came before the membership.

 

 

  1.  Adjournment:  The next General Membership meeting will be September 3, 2025. 

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