Keys to the Kingdom
By Carolyn Tucker
Words Never Die
Some things I forget and some things I remember — it just depends. When I attended Draughon Business College in Springfield, Missouri in 1976, I didn’t know any of the students when I arrived. However, I quickly made several new friends. One was a Chinese kid and, I don’t remember his name now, one day he and I were talking. In the middle of our conversation he said, “You have teeth like rabbit.” His out-of-the-blue statement made me laugh; I’ve told this funny incident many times throughout my life. (I got braces in 1979, and I’ve never had anyone tell me that my teeth looked like a bunny rabbit’s again.) Even though I can’t recall the guy’s name, I remember what he said. I’m sure he has forgotten all about me and my two front teeth.
This is a fact: The words we speak outlive us. I could author a small book using quotes from my parents. Their words influenced my life at the time and they’re still echoing in my day-to-day life even though their hearts ceased to beat in 2012 and 2015. Believers should consider the fact that what we say is being recorded in heaven and on earth. God keeps a record and so do the people with whom we have interaction.
James, the half brother of Jesus, wrote spiritual instruction on crucial topics regarding relationships. Christ followers are to choose our words with great care because words are powerful. “Indeed, we all make mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And the tongue is a flame of fire” (James 3:2,5-6 NLT). Right words can help and wrong words can hurt.
I think we all know how powerful words are. They cause wars, end marriages, start fights; bless family and friends, encourage the downcast, and vocalize prayers. “…the tongue is a fickle unrestrained evil that spews out words full of toxic poison! We use our tongue to praise God our Father and then turn around and curse a person who was made in His very image! Out of the same mouth we pour out words of praise one minute and curses the next. My brothers and sisters, this should never be! (James 3:8-10 TPT).
James uses the endearing terms of “brothers and sisters” in his wisdom sermon. He is writing to Christ followers who evidently needed a whippin’ behind the woodshed! Welp, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! Christ followers today are no different from those in the New Testament. If we want to shine the light and love of Jesus on others and represent Him well, we need to control the words that topple out of our mouth.
It would be to my benefit if I seriously considered this truth every day: “O Lord, You have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand” (Psalm 139:1,4,6 NLT). God is fully aware of every word spoken. Like King David, believers can pray this scripture: “Lord, help me control my tongue; help me be careful about what I say” (Psalm 141:3 NCV).
The Key: Folks may not remember your name, but they’ll remember what you said.