Wandering and Wondering by Patty LaRoche

Patty LaRoche. 2023.
Author: A Little Faith Lift…Finding Joy Beyond Rejection
www.alittlefaithlift.com
AWSA (Advanced Writers & Speakers Assoc.)

A Day in the Life of an Israelite

Sometimes, I think about how the wandering Israelites did what they did.  God asked them to sacrifice…if they wanted to be blessed. You and I have Leviticus and Numbers and Deuteronomy at our fingertips, and I can’t even graph on paper on what occasions they were to offer up their unblemished bull or sheep or bird.  (Trust me, I tried.)  And without fences or branding, how did they separate their animals from the other kajillion mammals running free?

On another matter, were there mirrors, or did that even matter?  Think about their clothing and possessions. They had one pair of sandals.  One outfit that, according to Deuteronomy 8:4, did not wear out.  Never did they wake up and have to decide what color they were in the mood to wear that morning.  Or look longingly at the rack of clothes that no longer fit…but sometime, might. Their kiddies did not have stuffed animal collections (like my grandkids do) that rival any carnival offering.  There were no books or DVD’s, no newspapers or meteorologists or political rivals. What in the world did they discuss?

The Israelites’ Sabbath rituals centered around tabernacle worship and rest.  No golf courses or Kansas City Chiefs to pull them away from their creator.  No Sunday school classes for the children.  No Sharkys or Lucci’s for lunch. No Walmart “shop-til-you-drop” outings for the family.  Had I been the matriarch of a family back then, I pity any relatives dependent upon me daily kneading loaves of bread unless, of course, it was in remembrance of Passover. (Yeast and I are not friends.)

On a moment’s notice, they were to pack up their tents, animals, families and belongings (as few as they were) and leave for…well, wherever the cloud (by day) or fire (by night) led them.  Not a big deal when they started out from Egypt because within a couple of weeks, they would be at their final destination.  But because of their disobedience, there they were, 40 years later, still comin’ ‘round the mountain with no Promised Land in sight.  Just wandering…and wondering, I imagine.

That being said, when I think of the things that fill my schedule (and my life), I sort of envy those who lived eons ago who had none of the entanglements we have.  Their life was all about teaching their children about God, setting up the portable tabernacle, and waiting on God.

The choices that consume my day like “What shall we have for dinner?” weren’t even part of the Israelites conversations.  Manna and quail and water from a rock.  Manna and quail and water from a rock.  Manna and quail and water from a rock.  Every day.  Every meal.  And they didn’t even have to provide it.  God did.

As I sit here this morning, scrolling through mashed potato recipes on my computer (and, of course, writing this article), I realize that my life is complicated because I make it that way.  God expects from me what He expected from the Israelites: that no matter what I do, I follow Him, care for what He was given me, and teach others about His provision.  And somewhere, in the middle of all of that, I think He wants me to clean out my closet and let those “too small” clothes be a blessing to someone else.

Christmas on the Bricks Free Concert

As part of the Chamber of Commerce sponsored “Christmas on the Bricks” weekend, Common Ground Coffee Co., 12 East Wall, presents Mariam Tucker Self in concert. Known as Kansas City’s only female Elvis tribute artist, Self will perform a “Christmas from Memphis” show featuring Christmas songs and other hits. The free concert is set for Saturday, December 6, from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m.

Obituary of Garin Richard Williams

 

Garin Richard Williams, 50, died on November 19, 2025. He was born on January 4, 1975, in Fort Scott, the oldest child and only son of Steve and Marci Williams—parents whose steady love shaped him, grounded him, and was returned to them a thousandfold. From an early age, they nurtured in him a deep devotion to family, a lifelong passion for sports, and a profound love for his heritage. He cherished the stories, the family history, and the land that tied generations together, holding those connections close throughout his life.

Garin grew up just north of Redfield, where his childhood was spent with a cowboy hat and a six-shooter, even sneaking his gun in his boot on the first day of kindergarten. After the West was won, he graduated to a dirt bike, pedaling hundreds of miles with his cousins and sister between their houses and their grandparents’—only a mile apart.

He was (at first) a reluctant sibling—he had his heart set on brothers—but quickly became an adoring and protective big brother to his two little sisters, Jayci and Kelci. He loved spending time with them, inventing new “Williams games” like Stuffed Animal Carry and Deck Ball, or refusing to let them beat him in checkers or, frankly, any other game on the planet. When he left for college, he regularly sent long letters and cards for every occasion to his family, and once even hid in a cardboard box to surprise Kelci after sneaking home from Sterling. His family never had to wonder if he loved them; he told them often and without hesitation.

Garin attended school at Uniontown from kindergarten through graduation with the class of 1993. Being mischievous enough to keep his friends laughing, yet mindful that his Grandma Carol was the grade school secretary, required a delicate balance.

A gifted athlete, Garin played football, basketball, and track. Though small in stature, he ran the football with fearless intensity, lowering his head to fight for one more yard. His real legend, however, was on the track. In grade school and junior high, he competed in AAU and the Hershey Track program, qualifying for three national track meets. He earned numerous state and regional championships, along with two third-place medals and one fourth-place medal at the national level. Forty years later, he still holds state and regional AAU records.

In high school, he won three individual state championships and still holds four school records—including all three distance events. Following graduation, he attended Pittsburg State University for one year, running track and cross country. He transferred to Sterling College in 1994 to follow his love of football. He continued to wear #20, just like his dad before him and his sisters after him, graduating in 1998 with a degree in History Education.

Garin married Treva Russell on December 20, 1997. They later divorced.

Garin’s greatest joy in life was being a father to his two children, Shayd and Finean. In 1998 Garin and his family moved to Lexington, Kentucky, returning to Kansas in 2001 so he could take a teaching job.

He taught high school history and was the head football and track coach at Crest High School for two years. In 2003, Garin and Treva moved to Fort Scott, where Garin stepped into the role he was truly made for – a stay-at-home dad and homeschool teacher to Shayd and Fin. He poured his whole heart into raising them and they were the center of his world. He was immensely proud of them and loved them fiercely. The family moved to Charleston, South Carolina in 2012 and Garin returned home to Kansas in 2022.

Garin was also a beloved uncle to six nephews – all of whom considered him the funniest person who ever lived. Garin had a rare gift for humor, turning any situation- no matter how ordinary-into something worth laughing about. People who knew him remember the same thing: if you were with Garin, you were laughing.

Garin grew up in the First Missionary Baptist Church, where he was baptized at the age of 8 by Reverend Deane Endicott. He was later a member of the First Presbyterian Church in Fort Scott, where he was part of the youth group ministry. The foundation laid in his childhood never left him. We trust in the God who knew him fully, loved him completely, and held him even on the days when Garin felt far away.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Jack and Doris Williams and Don and Carol Mix. He especially loved his grandmothers—visiting them often, sending them cards and handwritten letters, going with them to concerts, plays, and movies, and spending plenty of time playing card games. He delighted in making them laugh: one summer he even carried out a months-long practical joke involving a stuffed animal gorilla that Grandma Doris found endlessly funny. And when Grandma Carol decided the squirrels had declared war on her birdhouses, she hired Garin as her squirrel bounty hunter, paying him ten dollars a squirrel. He carried out the job with enthusiasm and capped it off by taping a stuffed animal squirrel to her birdhouse just to get one more laugh. It was classic Garin—equal parts helpful, mischievous, and full of heart.

Garin is survived by his parents, Steve and Marci Williams; his children, Shayd Williams and Finean Williams; his sisters, Jayci (Chad) Cosens and Kelci Ebrecht; his nephews, Dryden and Cal Cosens, Kreedyn Smith, and Colby, Cameron, and Boden Ebrecht. He is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends who cherished him.

Garin leaves us with a thousand memories that make us smile through our tears. His love and humor will live on in the family who adored him.

Private family services were held Tuesday. Memorials are suggested to the Uniontown First Missionary Baptist Church Summer Youth Camp or Ft. Scott’s Community Christian Church Playground Fund and may be left in care of the Cheney Witt Chapel, 201 S. Main, P.O. Box 347, Ft. Scott, KS 66701. Words of remembrance may be submitted to the online guestbook at cheneywitt.com.

Wreaths Across America 2025 Goals Are Met

We are pleased to announce that we have met our sponsorship goal for the 2025 Wreaths Across America event that will be held December 13 at Fort Scott National Cemetery, said Diann Tucker, location coordinator at Fort Scott National
Cemetery.

We are so grateful to everyone who has sponsored wreaths and made this possible again. Every veteran at Fort Scott National Cemetery will receive a remembrance wreath. This is only possible through the generosity of many and hard work in fundraising. If you did not sponsor a specific dedicated wreath this year but still want to do so, we can still include your dedication. Just contact us so
we can help you with that. Any funds received now will be held for the 2026 campaign. It takes fundraising all year long to accomplish this goal.

Our ceremony will begin at 10 AM on December 13, immediately followed bylaying of wreaths. There will be some limited golf cart transportation available to assist in getting volunteers and guests into the cemetery prior to the ceremony and immediately following. Our guest speaker this year is Pat Proctor, retired United States Army colonel. Volunteers are requested to help with wreath

Kansas Gas Service Shares Essential Tips to Prepare Homes for Winter

As temperatures drop and heating systems begin to
work overtime, Kansas Gas Service encourages customers to take proactive steps to keep families
safe, and homes heated efficiently throughout winter.
“Winter preparation is essential for both safety and comfort,” said Lisa Holleron, Vice President of
Operations at Kansas Gas Service. “Taking time now to winterize your home and maintain your
natural gas appliances can prioritize safety and potentially reduce energy costs all season long.”
Tips for a Safe and Warm Winter:
• Install and Test Carbon Monoxide Detectors: Place detectors on every level of
your home, especially near sleeping areas. Test monthly and replace batteries twice a
year.
• Schedule Appliance Inspections: Have a qualified technician inspect your natural
gas furnace, water heater and other gas appliances before the cold sets in.
• Seal and Insulate: Use caulk or weatherstripping to seal air leaks and add
insulation to attics and crawl spaces.
• Smart Thermostat Settings: Keep your home at 68–70°F during the day and lower
at night to save energy.
• Know the Signs of a Gas Leak: If you smell rotten eggs or hear a hissing sound,
leave immediately and call 911 and Kansas Gas Service at 888-482-4950.
Were Here to Help
Kansas Gas Service offers various programs to help customers manage winter heating costs,
including payment arrangements. More information is available at kansasgasservice.com/cares.
For more information about winter safety and energy efficiency tips, visit
www.kansasgasservice.com.
About Kansas Gas Service
Kansas Gas Service provides a reliable and affordable energy choice to more than 647,000 customers in Kansas and
is the largest natural gas distributor in the state, in terms of customers.
Headquartered in Overland Park, Kansas Gas Service is a division of ONE Gas, Inc. (NYSE: OGS), a 100-percent
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Bourbon County CASA Christmas Celebration is December 12

Sending on behalf of Chamber Member

Bourbon County CASA

“Change a Child’s Story”

This year’s Bourbon County CASA Christmas Celebration will be held on

Friday, December 12th

7-9pm

📍The Kingfisher Inn, 742 S. National Ave.

Fort Scott, KS

Heavy hors d’oeuvres & full bar provided.

RSVP by December 5th to:

[email protected]

or

Call 620-215-2769

Donations payable to:

Bourbon County CASA

PO Box 146

Fort Scott, KS 66701

Bourbon County CASA has been providing screened, trained community volunteers to advocate for abused and neglected children in the court room setting here in Bourbon County for 35 years.

To find out how you can make a difference in a child’s life, email christa@bourboncountycasa.com

Click the invite below for a printable .pdf copy.

Click HERE to visit the

Bourbon County CASA

Facebook Page!

Thank you to our Chamber Champion members shown below…
Fort Scott Area Chamber of Commerce

231 E. Wall St., Fort Scott, KS 66701

620-223-3566

fortscott.com

Key Warehouse Sale Continues Until November 29

Sending on behalf of Chamber Member

Key Apparel

Annual Key

Warehouse Sale

November 22nd-29th

The Annual KEY Warehouse Sale is just around the corner on

November 22-29th!

 

Find great deals on discounted workwear and outerwear for the whole family!

2400 S. Main, Suite 200

(in the shopping center next to T-Mobile.)

Closed:

Sunday – November 23

Thanksgiving – November 27

Gear up & grab a

deal at the

KEY Warehouse Sale!

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KEY Apparel Facebook page!

Click HERE for the

KEY Apparel event page!

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Key Apparel website!

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Aim for the Stars, Even If You Miss by Dr. Jack Welch

FROM THE BLEACHERS-736

BY DR. JACK WELCH

Aim for the Stars, Even If You Miss

As I was visiting with my friend David Bailiff last week, we started talking about energy in the workplace, specifically the kind that employees bring to their jobs and the expectations leaders place on them. Do employers truly want people who think creatively and go above and beyond, or do they only want individuals who follow the job description word for word?

David and I agreed: any employer would rather have employees you have to pull down out of the stars than those you have to kick in the tail just to get out of the chair. We’ve all heard the sayings: “Aim for the stars and you might reach the moon,” and the opposite, “Shoot low, Sheriff, I’m riding a Shetland.” Both philosophies exist in the workplace. One pushes people to innovate; the other encourages them to play it safe and avoid taking chances. The mindset employees adopt has everything to do with the culture employers create. Here’s the truth: playing it safe has never produced greatness.

Some employees make very few mistakes but never do anything extraordinary. Others slip up occasionally but bring creativity and fresh ideas. When both can handle the basic expectations of the job, any wise employer chooses the one who takes initiative, even if it means they fail sometimes. Failure is often proof that someone is trying.

At the same time, employers must lead with vision. They must evaluate what’s working, what’s not, and what needs to change. When results lag, doing the same thing over and over leads to stagnation. Progress requires new direction, calculated risks, and the courage to break old patterns.

I once served as a junior college head football coach and will never forget a conversation with one of my sophomore players. He shared his big goals, becoming All-Conference and earning a major college scholarship. At the time, he was a second-team guard. I told him his chances were slim, but encouraged him to work hard for his goals. He did much more than that.

When he returned for fall camp, he whipped every defensive lineman on our team. He earned the starting job, became All-Conference, and signed with a four-year university. What I later learned is that he had been discouraged after our meeting, but his position coach, Tracy Welch, talked to him and said, “Coach told you where you are, not what you can be. If you want those goals, shoot for the stars, and work to accomplish your dream.”

That’s exactly what he did. This is the kind of drive employees need and the kind of belief employers must cultivate. Let’s not limit each other by focusing on obstacles. Excellence requires effort, risk, and vision, from both sides of the relationship.

Thought for the week, “Greatness never comes from comfort. Aim high, take risks, and encourage others to do the same. Even if you miss the mark, the climb will make you stronger.” Joe Welch, Assistant Superintendent of Schools, Kingsville I.S.D.

 Dr. Jack Welch serves as President of Fort Scott Community College. With a career spanning professional sports, public education, and rural community development, he brings a servant-leader mindset and a passion for building trust-driven cultures that empower people to thrive in the classroom, on the field, and in life. He is also the author of Foundations of Coaching: The Total Coaching Manual.