Obituary of Delbert Metcalf

 

Delbert David Metcalf, “Dub” as he was known to most, age 76, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 23, 2025, surrounded by loved ones. He was born on November 11, 1948, to Wayne and Ellen Schubert Metcalf in Fort Scott, Kansas, where he remained a life-long resident. Shortly after graduating from Fort Scott High School in 1966, he entered the United States Navy, where he served 3 years overseas as a Navy Yeoman. He would later attend Pittsburg State University, where he successfully completed his bachelor’s degree. On March 2, 1970, he married the love of his life, Cheryl Elaine Sanders, in Miami, OK, and together they raised 3 strong and independent sons.

Delbert began his Social Services Career with the Kansas Department of Social and Rehabilitation Services (SRS) in August 1975 and he retired from the Kansas Department for Children and Family Services (DCF) in December 2009, having worked in front line benefits determinations from the time food stamps were issued on paper, to supervision in Bourbon and Linn Counties, and the last several years as the head of Operations for the local region. Delbert was active with the Bourbon County Coalition from the late 90’s into his retirement, serving on Task Forces for Domestic Violence, Child Care, Transportation and Housing, and helping to support community agencies like The Beacon, Mother to Mother Ministries, and Network for Families. In his retirement, Delbert returned to DCF as a volunteer, helped with food distribution at The Beacon and assisted the Good Neighbor Action Team with home improvement and repair projects.

“Dub” loved hunting coon, singing and picking the guitar, and telling stories. He was a devoted and loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. He will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Delbert is survived by his sons; Michael Metcalf and his wife Michelle of Leavenworth, KS; Jacob Metcalf and his wife Melissa of Jacksonville, FL; Joshua Metcalf and his wife Sara of Tulsa, OK; four grandchildren, Mitchell Metcalf, Elijah Metcalf, Norah Metcalf, and Jack Metcalf; one brother Michael Metcalf and his wife Debbie of Nevada, MO; one sister Shirley Moberg and her husband Henry of Cotton, MN; and many nieces and nephews. Delbert was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Cheryl, his brother Alvin, Alvin’s wife Linda, and his parents.

Following his cremation, a graveside memorial service will be conducted at 10:00 AM on Friday, March 7, 2025, at the Fort Scott National Cemetery under the direction of the Konantz-Cheney Funeral Home. Military honors will be provided by the United States Navy Funeral Honors Detail. Memorial contributions may be made to Care to Share, and may be left in the care of the Konantz-Cheney Funeral Home, 15 W. Wall Street, P.O. Box 309, Fort Scott, KS, 66701.  Friends and family may sign the online guest book and share memories at www.konantzcheney.com.

 

 

New Event Center Opens: 19 South Gathering Place

19 South Gathering Place Event Venue will be open for family gatherings and more at the end of March, if all goes as planned.
The 2,200 sq. ft. is located at 19 S. Main, adjacent to Main Street Vintage and Co, at 23 S. Main. The owner of both the businesses is Rechelle McClellan.
Rechelle McClellan is the owner of 19 South Event Venue. Submitted photo.
Available with the space are tables, chairs, wifi, and a kitchen for private use that includes a fridge and sink.
Kitchen area. Submitted photos.
The restroom of 19 South. Submitted photo.
“This can be used for baby showers, photography, birthday parties, reunions, family gatherings, and bridal showers,” McClellan said.
We have lots of exciting things that are happening at both locations.
The 2.200 event venue will be ready to rent by the end of March. Submitted photo.
Rentals are available for 4 hours Monday through Thursday for $75 and on Friday-Sunday for $100. For an 8-hour rental Monday-Thursday: $150 and Friday-Sunday: $200.
The venue can also be rented for a minimum of 2 hours for $25 on Monday-Thursday and $35 Friday through Sunday.
For more information, contact Rechelle McClellan at (417) 391-6153
Rechelle McClellan stands in front of 19 South Gathering Place. Submitted photo.

Kiwanis Pancake Feed Is Tomorrow March 4

Join the

Fort Scott Kiwanis Club

for their annual

Pancake Feed

Tuesday, March 4th

11:00am-1:30pm

4:00pm – 6:30pm

Drive-Thru Only!

First United Methodist Church

301 S. National Ave.

Tickets: $6

Children under 5: FREE

For delivery of 10+ orders:

Call 620-224-9067

Click HERE to visit their Facebook Group page.

Thank you to our Chamber Champion members shown below…
Fort Scott Area Chamber of Commerce

231 E. Wall St., Fort Scott, KS 66701

620-223-3566

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Name That Tune by Carolyn Tucker

 

 

Keys to the Kingdom By Carolyn Tucker

Name that Tune

 

I awakened during the night with the melody of an old hymn in my head. I had the tune and recognized it as being a song from my childhood. Oddly, I couldn’t pull out the title or lyrics but I knew the subject was peace. I made a mental note to remember this experience and then went back to sleep. When I awakened in the morning, the lyrics to the first verse began to come to me. I found my 1953 hymnal of “Praise and Worship” and quickly found the title in the index. Like Lieutenant Colonel John ’Hannibal’ Smith with the A-Team, ”I love it when a plan [song] comes together.”

 

“Wonderful Peace” was written by W.D. Cornell and W.G. Cooper. I never question the songs that God brings up in my spirit. He knows me better than I know myself, therefore,  I trust Him. Asaph was the music director during the reign of King David and King Solomon. He penned his personal experience with God: “I call to remembrance my song in the night; I meditate within my heart, and my spirit makes diligent search” (Psalm 77:6 NKJV). In the present darkness, believers will always find God standing with us and  often reminds us of His faithfulness through a song.

 

If God can’t seem to get our attention during the day, He’ll speak to us in the night. Why? After the errands are finished, the to-do list is completed, and the  troubleshooting is done, then comes the quiet of the night. When our minds are at rest, our hands are motionless, and our mouths are silenced, God can whisper and then we can hear Him.

 

Here is the “song in the night” that God wanted me to hear: “Far away in the depths of my spirit tonight rolls a melody sweeter than psalm. In celestial-like strains it unceasingly falls o’er my soul like an infinite calm. Peace! Peace! Wonderful peace. Coming down from the Father above! Sweep over my spirit forever I pray, in fathomless billows of love. I am resting tonight in this wonderful peace. Resting sweetly in Jesus’ control. For I’m kept from all danger by night and by day. And His glory is flooding my soul.” Peace replaces anxiety when we hand the troubling circumstance to God and trust Him to take over.

 

God works through a myriad of ways in order to tell us what He wants us to hear. Apparently, I needed to be reminded of the peace that was given to me by the Prince of Peace. “In peace I will lie down and sleep, for You alone, O Lord, will keep me safe” (Psalm 4:8 NLT). If I want to passionately live for Christ and remain faithful to the end, I need to be peaceful during the journey.

 

Peace is a big deal and Jesus made it available for all Christ followers. Without peace in our heart, life ain’t all it’s cracked up to be. Apostle Paul understood the importance of peace as he wrote to encourage the Thessalonian church. “Now, may the Lord Himself, the Lord of peace, pour into you His peace in every circumstance and in every possible way. The Lord‘s tangible presence be with you all” (2 Thessalonians 3:16 TPT). Believers can live out our faith with peace every day. It’s certainly possible to fall off the wagon for a time, but we don’t have to stay there. Just get up, brush ourselves off, and hop on the peace wagon again. And hold on for dear life because the road is bumpy.

 

The Key: Consider yourself hugged by God when He speaks peace into your heart.

Pasteur Fertilizers and Weed Control

Lonnie Mengarelli. Submitted photo.

Spring is just around the corner and that means it is time to be thinking about pasture fertilizers and weed control. As you all know the last 3 years have been hard on our pastures due to drought. One major question that seems to get asked a lot is “did my grass survive”. The short answer is only time will tell.

Research has shown that January and February are recommended times to fertilize pastures and hay meadows, but many producers have been known to wait till March and even April. As with most agricultural practices there is more than one way to do things, it is just a matter of adapting to the timing of the application.

Many know producers are aware that they need nitrogen for cool season grass such as fescue. While that is true for hay production especially, for pastures phosphorous plays an important role in plant health especially in a drought year. This is due to phosphorus promotes strong root development and early root growth. Phosphorus also plays a key part in cell division during growing stages, storing and transferring energy, and increase disease resistance in plants. So yes, grass needs nitrogen but also requires phosphorus to maintain a healthy pasture.

There are options available for weed and brush control that can be applied by coating your fertilizer with them. This is beneficial to you as a producer for a couple of reasons. Most importantly time your time! Why wouldn’t you want to save time by doing two things at once? AKA feeding your grass and killing your weeds in one pass. Secondly by doing this you also save money by not having a second application cost. The down side to this is you will need to wait till later in the spring to apply the herbicides to get a better control on your weeds. It is recommended that you wait till April 1st to make sure weeds and brush are emerging and are actively growing quickly. This also helps with the residual in herbicides maintain control longer into the fall such as Aminopyralid plus Rinskor.

If you choose not to use a herbicide with your fertilizer and would like to over seed your pasture you can mix the seed in your fertilizer cart and spread it together. Now the thing you need to know about doing this is that the seed will not travel as far as the fertilizer. To overcome this it is best to find 50 foot double spinner fertilizer buggy, and then you’ll need to set it to half of the application rate. You will then double spread it to reduce your seed skips.

As for recommended fertilizer rates a soil test is your best option to see what is needed in your pasture, but there are some common mixes that many producers tend to use. For lower stocking rates on pasture a lot tend to use a 30-30-30 (Nitrogen-Phosphorus-Potassium) mix. For higher stocking rates a 50-30-30 tends to get a little extra bump to get them though the growing season.

On March 25, 2025 there is a Soil Health: Pasture Rejuvenation field day at the Southeast Research and Extension Center in Parsons from 8:30am to 2:30pm. Lunch will be Provided. Topics include: Soil Variability, Soil Health Measurements, Pasture management, Farmer Panel, and Drone Demonstration.

Lonnie Mengarelli is a K-State Research and Extension Agriculture agent assigned to Southwind District. He may be reached at mengo57@ksu.edu or 620-223-3720

 

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An Introduction to Bonding Through Board Games

Tara Soloman-Smith, Family and Wellness Agent, Sunflower District of Kansas State University’s Extension Office. Submitted photo.

We’ve all spent a lot of time indoors lately, and with winter lingering, now is the perfect time to strengthen bonds with family or in the classroom through board games—they’re more than just a pastime!

 

Every human being has a fundamental need for connection, belonging, and love. In today’s fast-paced world, quality time is often lost in the rush of daily life. Board games offer a simple yet powerful way to foster meaningful connections and develop essential life skills.

Six Key Traits of Strong, Successful Families:

  • Dedicated time for one another
  • Genuine appreciation and support
  • Open and honest communication
  • A space to share values, skills, and beliefs
  • Resilience in handling stress and challenges
  • A deep commitment to each other

 

Board Games Help Develop Key Soft Skills:

  • Social Skills: Respecting others, appropriate behavior, and conflict resolution
  • Communication Skills: Verbal, written, non-verbal, and active listening
  • Executive Function: Problem-solving, critical thinking, multitasking, and adaptability
  • Self-Control: Managing impulses, emotions, and focus while practicing patience
  • Positive Self-Concept: Building confidence, self-worth, and emotional awareness

It’s important to know that all games are not the same.  Euro-style games emphasize strategy while downplaying luck (players are allowed to control randomness) and indirect player conflict, which usually involves competition over resources. Eurogame activities create positive environments for relationships to grow.

 

Why Choose a Euro Game?

Euro-style board games feature engaging wooden components like cubes and meeples, keeping players involved even when it’s not their turn. These games start players on equal footing, offering strategic choices to gain abilities. With simple rules and short playtimes, they emphasize strategy, resource competition, and minimal randomness.

 

Designed for all ages, Euro games encourage peaceful interaction, fostering relationships in a positive environment. Unlike video games, they promote face-to-face communication, helping players read body language and connect on a deeper level. Studies show board games enhance teamwork, communication, time management, problem-solving, and leadership skills.

You may find a list of these games here:  https://bit.ly/eurostylegames.

 

This article is the first in a three-part series and comes from information in the Bonding Thru Board Games fact sheets.  For more information contact Tara Solomon-Smith, tsolomon@ksu.edu, 620-244-3826.

 

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Bourbon County Coalition Meeting Agenda For March 5  

The next Bourbon County Coalition General Membership meeting will be next Wednesday, March 5th at 1:00 p.m. in the Conference room at the Scottview Apartments, 315 S. Scott Ave.

 

Bourbon County Inter-Agency Coalition

General Membership Meeting Agenda

 

March 5, 2025 1:00 PM

Scottview Conference Room

315 S. Scott Ave

 

 

  1.  Welcome: 

 

 

  1.  Member Introductions and Announcements:

 

 

  1.  Program:  Sarah Poteat, Regional Manager, CarePortal

 

 

  1.  Open Forum:

 

 

  1.  Adjournment:  The next General Membership meeting will be April 2, 2025.