An Encounter at the Post Office by Patty LaRoche

Patty LaRoche. 2023.
Author: A Little Faith Lift…Finding Joy Beyond Rejection
www.alittlefaithlift.com
AWSA (Advanced Writers & Speakers Assoc.)

I made a new friend last week.  We were standing next to each other in a looooong line at the post office here in Las Vegas, and I listened to her try to help a young man behind her navigate his paperwork.  She noticed me (eavesdropping) and sweetly said, “I sure hope I told him right.  I’m not even sure I’m doing mine right.” She was trying to decide if she should attach a mailing label to her package or not.  I told her that whatever she did was just fine, and if the postal worker didn’t approve, she should tell him that I told her it was fine.  It was a goofy thing to say, but we both laughed. And in the next few minutes, we laughed a lot.  My kind of gal.

It turns out that Ty lives near me.  We exchanged phone numbers, agreed that God works in the craziest of ways, and today had lunch together.  I had hoped to share Jesus with her, but I didn’t have to.  As we hugged in front of the restaurant before going inside, she handed me a gift: a Christian book she had written.  Before we even ordered, I asked Ty to tell me about her life. She shared how God had taken her from homelessness at the age of 14 by directing her steps and giving her entrepreneurial skills.

While we were eating, Ty received a text from her mother, the same mother who had abandoned her and left her (Ty) to raise her two-year-old brother. “To my beautiful, intelligent, wonderful daughter” it began.  Ty had forgiven her mother and bought her a car and a home about an hour away.  “That’s what God calls us to do,” she said matter-of-factly.

We talked about how God had orchestrated our meeting in that looooong line in the post office.  Ty said that she now spends most of her time writing software codes for doctors and accountants and isn’t really into developing relationships with people, so it was strange that we talked and laughed the way we did. I assured her that I had no idea how she did what she did because my brain does not work like that.  I’m just into people. I love making friends.

This past week, my husband sent me an email he had received that dealt with finding good friends.  Some of it, I liked.  Some, not.  Take this one, for instance: “If you want to reach the top, surround yourself with the right people.  We have heard your network is your Net Worth.  It is so, so true!  Be with those who will help you climb higher.”  I get what the writer intends, but money never should be a qualification for a friendship.

The writer went on to list other kinds of friends we need: a Covenant Friend who loves no matter what; a Confidant Friend who never is jealous of other’s success; a Hospitable Friend who keeps people grounded; and a Spiritual Friend (“one that will pray for you without you asking, the one that you go to for advice, you go to when you need a reality check”).

Christmas is the perfect time to remember family and friends.  Jesus was all about relationships and instructed his disciples to spend their lives discipling others.  I cannot imagine how empty my life would be without my friends, but I wonder how many times I’ve been too self-absorbed to reach out like I did with Ty.  What opportunities did God lay at my feet, but I just ignored them?  I’m afraid it’s not their loss, but mine.

Obituary of Karin Turk

Karin Lee Turk, age 74, a former resident of Topeka, Kansas, and more recently of Ft. Scott, Kansas, passed away Monday, December 23, 2024, at Arma Health & Rehab in Arma, Kansas, surrounded by her family.

She was born October 26, 1950, in Topeka, Kansas, the daughter of Jack and Margaret Williamson. Karin graduated from the Hayden High School and Platte Business College. She married Steven Lee Turk on March 15, 1968.

Throughout her life, Karin wore many career hats. She was a professional cake decorator and also ran a daycare out of her home for over ten years. She later did clerical and claim work for Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas. Other than her favorite role of grandma, Karin enjoyed baking, embroidering, and reading. She was also an accomplished seamstress and had a secret dream of becoming a fashion designer. She often made outfits for her children in their younger years, and in her own words, she was “almost as good as mom.”

Following the death of her husband in September of 2005, Karin moved to Ft. Scott to be with her daughter. However, she still remained connected with her other family and cared for her own elderly mother in her later years.

Survivors include her children, Jennifer Clara Lemke of Ft. Scott, Steven Louis Turk of Topeka, and Matthew Berglund Turk of Pensacola, Florida; thirteen grandchildren and two great-grandchildren who were pride and joy. She is also survived by her siblings, Susan Williamson and James Williamson, both of Topeka. In addition to her husband, Karin was preceded in death by her parents and a brother, John Williamson.

Following cremation, a private family service will be held at a later date. Arrangements are under the direction of the Cheney Witt Chapel, 201 S. Main, Ft. Scott, Kansas. Words of remembrance may be submitted to the online guestbook at cheneywitt.com.

City of Fort Scott Special Meeting Today at 6 p.m.

 

 

 

NOTICE OF AND AGENDA FOR REGULAR

MEETING OF FORT SCOTT CITY COMMISSION

City Hall Commission Room – 123 S. Main Street, Fort Scott, KS 66701

December 23, 2024 – 6:00 P.M.

 

 

  1.     Call to Order
  2.     Roll Call

Tim VanHoecke,   Matthew Wells,   Dyllon Olson,   Kathryn Salsbury,  Tracy Dancer

III.       Pledge of Allegiance

  1. Invocation
  2. Approval of Agenda
  3. New Business

Action Items:

  1. Consideration to approve changes to the Payment Contract with Freeman Hospital

VII.    Adjourn

 

 

 

Core Community Fundraiser: REZA LIVE on Feburary 8

Bourbon County Core Community exists to help with solving poverty in Bourbon County.

“We are a donor-supported 501(c)3 organization that offers an effective, data-backed program that walks people who are struggling in poverty through a 22-week course that helps them learn the mindset of poverty, the mindset of middle-class, and the steps it takes for them to move from one to the other,” said Deana Betts, the community liaison for the organization.

Bourbon County Core Community is hosting a fundraising event called Reza Live! on  February 8th at 7 p.m. at the Ellis Fine Arts Center on the campus of Fort Scott Community College.

About REZA

“More than a magic show, Reza infuses stage of the art production elements, masterful comedic timing, and numerous interactive & inspirational moments, allowing the audience to experience the magic first hand, according to a press release fron Core Community. Perhaps Reza’s greatest secret is his uncanny ability to communicate his performance art on such a personal level.”

Ellis Fine Arts Center on the campus of Fort Scott Community College, 2401 S. Horton.

Tickets are on sale now and available at rezalive.com.

“All proceeds will be used to fund our efforts to help people of Bourbon County move out of poverty,” Betts said.

 

 

About the program

“We meet every Tuesday night, begin with a donor-provided meal, and eat together as families. The children then move onto their programming while the adults work through class content, set goals met with their Core Friends (volunteers from the middle-class who help them and encourage them), etc.” she said.

Volunteers with Core Community provide meals, childcare, speak on specific topics, and be Core Friends.

If you are interested in getting involved, please contact Deana Betts 785-488-8411.

Amended Agenda For the Bourbon County Commission Meeting Today at 5:30 p.m.

 

 

Bourbon County Courthouse

210 S. National Ave Fort Scott, KS 66701 Phone: 620-223-3800

Fax: 620-223-5832

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bourbon County, Kansas

Brandon Whisenhunt

1st District Commissioner

Jim Harris, Chairman

2nd District Commissioner

Clifton Beth

3rd District Commissioner

 

 

Bourbon County Commission Agenda 210 S. National Ave.

Fort Scott, KS 66701

 

December 23, 2024 5:30 p.m.

 

 

  1. Call Meeting to Order
  2. Flag Salute
  • Approval of Consent Agenda
    1. Approval of Minutes from 12/19/2024
    2. Approval of November Financials
  1. Public Comments
  2. Department Updates
  3. Public Works
  4. Freeman Agreements
  • Sheriff Bill Martin-Financial Advisor Request
  • Jim Harris-Executive Session KSA 75-4319 (b)(1)
  1. MOU For Possible Housing Development
  2. Redistricting
  3. Commission Comments
  • Adjourn Meeting

 

 

Executive Session Justifications:

 

KSA 75-4319 (b)(1) to discuss personnel matters of individual nonelected personnel to protect their privacy.

KSA 75-4319 (b)(2) for consultation with an attorney for the public body or agency which would be deemed privileged in the

attorney-client relationship.

KSA 75-4319 (b)(3) to discuss matters relating to employer/employee negotiations whether or not in consultation with the

representative(s) of               the body or agency.

KSA 75-4319 (b)(4) to discuss data relating to financial affairs or trade secrets of corporations, partnerships, trust and individual     proprietorships

KSA 75-4319 (b)(6) for the preliminary discussion of the acquisition of real property.

KSA 75-4319 (b)(12) to discuss matters relating to the security measures, if the discussion of such matters at an open meeting

would jeopardize such security measures.

 

Obituary of Benjamin David “Benji” Smith

Benjamin David “Benji” Smith, age 22, a former resident of Mapleton, Kansas, left this troubled world and was welcomed into the arms of the Lord Jesus Christ on December 12, 2024.

He was currently serving in the United States Navy at Naval Submarine Base Kings Bay, Georgia, on the USS Florida (SSGN-728).  Benji was born March 25, 2002, in Ft. Scott, Kansas, the son of Randall Douglas Smith and Tonya Linn Hill Smith.

Shortly after his birth, the Smith family moved to France in preparation for the mission field.  They served as missionaries in the West African nation of Ivory Coast and later in Burkina Faso.  Even at a young age, Benji had a very outgoing personality and loved interacting with the African people.

The family occasionally returned to the United States for furlough but returned for good in 2017.  Benji dearly loved his church family at Xenia Baptist Church.  He graduated from the Christian Learning Center in 2020 and went on to receive an associate’s degree from Ft. Scott Community College.  He later enlisted with the United States Navy.  He had completed the Naval Nuclear Power Training Course and currently held the rank of Petty Officer Second Class.

Benji loved being outdoors and running.  He was very meticulous and intelligent but also possessed a keen wit and a sharp sense of humor.

 

Survivors include his parents, Randy and Tony Smith of Mapleton and siblings, Jonathan, of Ft. Scott, LaRée of Lexington Kentucky, and Joshua, who is also serving in the Navy at the Naval Nuclear Power Command in Charleston, South Carolina. Also surviving are his maternal grandparents, Bill and June Hill of Mapleton as well as numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.  Benji was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Norman and Kay Smith.

 

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 A.M. Monday, December 30th at the Xenia Baptist Church.

Burial with full military honors will follow in the Mapleton Cemetery.

The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 P.M. Sunday at the Cheney Witt Chapel.

Memorials are suggested to the Xenia Baptist Church and may be left in care of the Cheney Witt Chapel, 201 S. Main, P.O. Box 347, Ft. Scott, KS 66701.  Words of remembrance may be submitted to the online guestbook at cheneywitt.com

Roaring 20s Christmas by Carolyn Tucker

 

Keys to the Kingdom

By Carolyn Tucker

Roaring ‘20s Christmas

 

My mom was born in Dade County, Missouri on December 17, 1923, the thirteenth child and only girl. (It wasn’t unusual to have large families back then.) Mom shared many stories about her life and I always enjoyed hearing them. She said, “We were poor, but we didn’t know it because everybody was just like us.” As a little girl, she played with a rock and pretended it was a doll. There was plenty of food to eat, enough clothes, and a roof over her head. There was plenty of love and laughter, family and cousins galore, and that caused her to feel rich on the inside. I asked about her Christmases as a youngster and she said, “I usually got a dime and an orange.”

 

After Jesus’ birth in Bethlehem, and after the proper amount of days, it was time for Mary and Joseph to take Him to the Temple in Jerusalem. “Then it was time for their purification offering, as required by the law of Moses after the birth of a child, so His parents took Him to Jerusalem to present Him to the Lord. So they offered the sacrifice required in the law of the Lord — ‘either a pair of turtledoves or two young pigeons‘“ (Luke 2:22,24 NLT). The Old Testament further clarifies what animals may be brought for this particular offering: “If a woman cannot afford to bring a lamb, she must bring two turtledoves or two young pigeons“ (Leviticus 12:8 NLT). Here we find evidence that Mary and Joseph were poor. But I suspect they felt rich on the inside.

 

Based on Matthew 2:16, most scholars believe Jesus was about two years old when the wise men visited Him in Bethlehem. “They [wise men] entered the house and saw the child with His mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped Him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh” (Matthew 2:11 NLT).

 

These three gifts are an interesting study. Since these wealthy men were wise and  determined to find the Savior of the world, we can be sure their gifts were perfect for the occasion. Gold represented wealth and was a highly-valued treasure by everyone. The Ark of the Covenant was overlaid with pure gold and the mercy seat of the Tabernacle was of gold. John the Revelator tells us, “And the street of the city was pure gold, like transparent glass (Revelation 21:21 NKJV). The gift of gold supplied the family’s financial needs and also represented Jesus’ Kingship as the Prince of Peace.

 

Frankincense is a fragrant resin from a tree which was quite valuable. Because of its lovely perfume and its association with worship in the temple, it would make sense for the Magi to include it as a gift to the Messiah. The gift of frankincense represented His Deity as the Son of God.

 

Myrrh has a medicinal quality and the Jews used it to offer pain relief to those who were suffering physically. Myrrh mixed with wine was offered to Jesus as He agonized on the cross, but He refused it. Myrrh was also used in embalming (ref. John 19:39-40). The gift of myrrh was a solemn foreshadowing of Jesus’ death and burial.

 

The Key: Because Jesus is our Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace, we can joyfully celebrate Christmas because we’re rich on the inside.

Southwind Extension District Appreciation Award 2024: Southeast Kansas Area Agency on Aging

(Left to Right) – Stacy Dickerhoof, SEKAAA; Diedre Reed, SEKAAA; Tara Solomon-Smith, Southwind District; Kathy Brennon, SEKAAA; Krista Harding, Southwind District
Submitted photo.

 

The Southwind Extension District is proud to recognize Southeast Kansas Area Agency on Aging (SEKAAA) for their outstanding support of the mission of K-State Research & Extension. SEKAAA has partnered with Southwind Extension District to implement evidence-based health programs that increase independence, balance, and state of mind.  These organizations also work together to assist Medicare beneficiaries in navigating their health insurance decisions. The K-State Research and Extension Appreciation Award was authorized by Extension administrative staff in 1977. Its purpose is to honor a person, business or organization who has made outstanding contributions to extension programs in a county or district. The Southwind District Extension board and agents want to express their sincere gratitude to Southeast Kansas Area Agency on Aging for their support and look forward to partnerships yet to come.

Check Your Credit Report Yearly

Amanda Classen. Submitted photo.

 

According to a study by the Federal Trade Commission, one in five people have an error on at least one of their credit reports. The Fair Credit Reporting Act mandates that the three major credit reporting agencies provide consumers with a free copy of their credit report once a year. Despite this, the most recent data reveals that only one in three Kansans review their credit reports annually, with the state ranking among the lowest in the nation for regular credit report checks.

Credit plays a crucial role in managing our financial lives. It is used to achieve both long-term goals, such as financing higher education and purchasing a home, as well as shorter-term objectives. A credit report outlines an individual’s credit history, and lenders, creditors, landlords, and utility companies rely on this information to make decisions regarding loans, credit limits, interest rates, security deposits, and even employment opportunities. Employers may also review credit reports when determining access to company credit cards for business expenses.

Regularly checking your credit report is an essential step in protecting against identity theft and ensuring your credit history remains accurate. Experts recommend that consumers check their credit reports at least once a year to stay informed.

K-State Research and Extension offers a free email program, Check Your Credit, designed to help you stay on top of your credit report. The program sends reminders three times a year—on February 2, June 6, and October 10—to encourage you to check your credit report. Participants will also receive periodic emails with valuable information on how to interpret their credit reports, correct errors, and leverage credit information to their advantage. Additionally, the program provides a tool to help you track the dates and credit bureaus you have reviewed.

Participation is free and registration is simple. Take a proactive step toward securing your financial future by signing up for K-State Research and Extension’s Check Your Credit program today. To register for this program, visit https://bit.ly/SouthwindCYC25. For more information Community Vitality Agent Amanda Clasen at any Southwind District office or [email protected].  We are here to support you as you work toward achieving financial well-being.