Dave noticed her from our Mazatlán deck and pointed her out to me. She, the mother of three youngsters, sat in her lounge chair nearby while her kiddies played in the pool. For fifteen (15!!!) minutes, she took Selfies, which, statistically speaking, were some of the 93 million taken that day.
First, she checked the sunlight. Then she twisted sideways. Swished her hair. Puckered her lips. Moved her bangs. Crossed her legs. Uncrossed her legs. Raised her eyebrows. Tossed her head. Showed her pearly whites. Closed her mouth. Turned the other direction and started over.
You name it. She tried it. This mother was determined to find one photo that made her look stunning, oblivious to her young kids in the pool. Dave found it fascinating that she was so picky about finding the perfect pose to impress…well, someone. (Perhaps just herself?)
Surely one of the Selfies in the first minute should have done the trick, right? I mean, even I can probably find one picture that makes me look younger, skinnier and sexier quicker than that. Okay, I can’t, but you know what I mean.
Talk about self-consumed neediness! The woman’s search to appear perfect screamed volumes of insecurity. Goodness, she has three children. If ever an excuse existed to have crows’ feet, eyebags and unruly hair, this was it. Relish it. Be empowered by it. Use it.
Like I do.
But then, for some reason, I started thinking of myself, and yes, I know, that that in itself is a form of neediness. Haven’t I been known to delete album photos that for some silly reason make me appear 30 pounds overweight? Or magnify my double-chin? Or show my bald spot?
Yes to all of the above.
But that’s not the worst of it. Not only am I needy in the physical realm, I’m needy in the spiritual realm even more, even though I want to want (read that again) everything in my life to be about loving God first and looking forward to life with Him in eternity. You know, loving the cross more than the crown.
Don’t I agree with Paul’s writing in 2 Corinthians 5:8? “…we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord.” Paul would never have taken a Selfie. His purpose on earth had nothing to do with how he looked to others. It was all about pleasing Jesus and meeting him face-to-face in Heaven.
I’ve been thinking that someone should invent a Sacred Selfie to reveal our spiritual lives…sort of a wake-up call for Christians who just might need to get into the Son-light to examine their priorities.
Then again, maybe that’s what the Bible is for.