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USD235 Board of Education Agenda Packet for August 11
Two Girls and A Pair of Shoes by Carolyn Tucker

Keys to the Kingdom
By Carolyn Tucker
Two Girls and a Pair of Shoes
On my way home from Missouri I decided to stop at one of my favorite shoe stores. Sometimes I’m just looking, but on this particular day I was shopping for a specific style: dressy black shoes with medium-height heel and open toe. It didn’t take long to find the perfect pair, but my size was AWOL. I grabbed a sample shoe and found Jesslyn, the sweet young clerk, and asked if perhaps a size 6 could be in the storage room. She smiled and courteously responded that everything they had was out on the shelf. We visited for a few minutes about how cute these shoes were and then she said something I’d never heard before from a shoe-store clerk: “They are really pretty shoes, in fact, I have a black pair and a white pair of them at my house that I’ve worn only once for a high school special-occasion evening. I’m pretty sure at least one of them is a size 6. Would you be interested in buying them?” I said, “Yes! If it‘s the black pair — I don‘t need the white ones.” Jesslyn told me it was actually time for her break, so she’d ask the manager if she could run home to get the shoes for me. She got the green light and off she drove.
I meandered around the store waiting and thinking about how this was evolving into a very unusual story. Very shortly, Jesslyn zoomed into the parking lot and walked in toting the size 6 black shoes that I’d set my heart on. We had previously agreed on a price, so I laid the money down and both of us had a win-win for the day! I couldn’t leave without a taking a picture of the three of us smiling, standing behind the counter. I told the girls they could be sure to find this story in their local newspaper — because it’s just too good and off-the-wall not to share!
I pray about everything, whether it‘s big or little. But I don‘t remember praying for a pair of black shoes. However, they were an insignificant secret desire of my heart. Over the years, the following scripture has proven to be true in my life: “Find your delight in the Lord. Then He will give you everything your heart really wants” (Psalm 37:4 NIRV). After experiencing several weeks of stress associated with totaling a vehicle, I think the odd blessing of finding these shoes was simply God’s way of reminding me that He cares about even the little things in my life.
You may think I’m an oddball; you may think I’m wacky. You may believe in coincidence; I do not. I see God’s fingerprints all over this encounter of the bizarre kind. It started with me simply asking, against all odds, “Do you have a size 6 in the backroom?” I already knew the answer, but something prompted me to ask anyway. And now you know the rest of the story.
There are definite perks that come to believers from delighting ourselves in the Lord. And many times God sends these unique blessings through people. These two girls were sweet as sugarcane but God can cause even grumpy people to give us favor. He knows the number of hairs on our head so He certainly cares about our desires, no matter what size they are. In my case, a 6.
The Key: God used Jesslyn and Donna to bring my heart’s desire to reality! I was still smiling as I drove across the Vernon/Bourbon County line.
Parents, Children, and Tantrums

It’s not summer without kid’s games at the local county fair! My four-year-old excitedly participated in the pig contest. When his attempts to catch the animal failed, he wailed! Are you like me as a parent, and try to make a tantrum stop?
Researchers at Berkeley University’s Greater Good Science Center have studied the meltdowns that can be frequent occurrences when children (and their parents) are frustrated and stressed. The science behind tantrums tells us they aren’t breakdowns of behavior—they’re breakthroughs of communication.
Understanding what’s really happening during meltdowns can help us respond to our children in a way that supports them… and makes things easier for us, too!
Root Causes of Tantrums
Tantrums aren’t defiance—they’re a child’s way of expressing unmet needs. They often stem from:
- Frustration with independence: Kids get upset when they can’t complete tasks just beyond their ability.
- Limits and authority: Toddlers react strongly to boundaries, which may feel unfair to them.
- Sharing and social struggles: Young children lack the development to truly share, leading to meltdowns.
- Unmet basic needs: Hunger, tiredness, or lack of connection can quickly trigger tantrums.
Understanding these root causes helps reduce tantrum frequency and improves communication.
Is there a better way to respond to tantrums?
- Stay Regulated yourself. Practice an exercise such as a breathing technique. Reframe your mindset by stating ‘This isn’t personal, my child is dysregulated’. This does not excuse difficult behavior but helps us respond with understanding rather than a surge of frustration ourselves.
- Don’t punish, but don’t give in. Avoid dismissing your child’s emotions or punishing them during a tantrum. They’re not being defiant—they’re overwhelmed and need your help to calm down. Stay calm yourself; reacting with anger only escalates things and puts unfair pressure on your child to manage your emotions too.
- Validate your child’s experience.
After a tantrum, wait until your child is truly calm before talking. Use the Validation Ladder:
Be present: Give full attention, no distractions.
Reflect: “You felt angry when we left the playground?” This tells your child their feelings matter.
Contextualize: “You were excited to play, so it makes sense you’re upset.”
Propose: Try digging a little deeper. “Maybe you’re also worried we won’t come back soon?”
Empathize: “That sounds really disappointing.” Be sure your voice tells you really mean what you are saying.
Take Action: Think about what you could do differently. “Next time, I’ll give a 5-minute warning.”
Validation helps kids feel understood—not indulged—and reduces future meltdowns.
- Build support over time.
As kids grow, they can express how they want support. Use calm moments to reflect patterns or offer choices: “Do you want me close or to give space when you’re upset?”
- Stay curious.
Look beyond behavior to understand the need or emotion driving it.
Parenting is not easy and it’s probably the most important job you can have. I hope to navigate it well by continually learning. For more information contact Tara Solomon-Smith, [email protected], 620-244-3826.
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Kansas State University Agricultural Experiment Station and Cooperative Extension Service
Bourbon County Coalition Meeting Minutes of August 6
Bourbon County Inter-Agency Coalition
General Membership Meeting Minutes
August 6, 2025
- Welcome: Twenty-two members representing nineteen agencies attended the meeting held at the Scottview Apartments Conference Room.
- Member Introductions and Announcements:
- Jennyifer Gum-Fowler -Fort Scott Public Library
- Alyssa Hess- Safehouse Pittsburg
- Anna Salas – Safehouse Pittsburg
- Theresa Amershek – Child Exchange & Visitation Center (Safehouse)
- Patty Simpson – Fort Scott Housing Authority – There is currently a waiting list for all sizes of units, but still taking applications
- Sandy Haggard – K-State Extension – Offering food safety “OWL Hour” program. Focused on cooking for one or two. Takes place at Fort Scott Public Library on Wednesdays at 10 AM. The Americorps grant was renewed and will be starting back up soon.
- Jalaine Davis – Core Community Coach- The new phase of Core Community will be starting on September 9th.
- Dave Gillen – Beacon – Provide food and hygiene items to individuals in need. Can provide a limited number of taxi passes and gas vouchers. The Beacon served 399 families in July ($3,800 in assistance). Numbers are increasing steadily. Served 8 new families last month.
- Tammy Alcantar- Crawford County Health Department – Teen pregnancy grant has changed and will go back to MCOs. Tammy is still doing the Baby and Me Tobacco Free program. Prenatal class offered for Bourbon, Crawford, and Cherokee counties. Started Monday, offers learning and resources for expecting moms. All pregnant moms can participate.
- Dee Dee LeFever- Greenbush Early Learning Services -Greenbush provides Parents as Teachers, Birth to 3 programs. Also hosts parent training modules. Dee Dee is now part of the Autism team. A new PAT parent educator has been hired for Bourbon County.
- Craig Campbell Good Neighbor Action Team – GNAT is averaging one wheelchair ramp build per week. Linn and Crawford counties have been keeping them busy. Working with the codes department on code violations. GNAT will help homeowners recover overgrown properties, and can help paint houses. Working with FS City to develop a list of wish-list properties that volunteers can help with. Craig also works with individuals who need court-ordered volunteer hours. Check the GNAT Facebook page for more information.
- Heather Shepherd – School-based Community Health Worker – Works with students and families. Heather can help students and their families find resources, help with insurance, parenting, about anything.
- Kathy Romero – Angels Home Health -Angels covers several counties in SEK. They can provide any kind of home health services. Provide programs designed for a wide range of individuals and their needs.
- Belinda Pitts – Mental Health Liaison – USD 234 – Belinda helps connect children with mental health resources. She works with families to build trust and supports teachers by helping kids in the classroom.
- Christa Vaughn – SEK Mental Health – Case managers and getting ready to go back to school. Fully staffed at USD 234.
- Cherri Walrod – K-State Community Health Worker – Cherri helps individuals with food, assistance applications, and works with families with special needs children. Her position is grant-funded through the end of this year.
- Shelby Moore- Families Together FAST Program – Shelby helps families navigate the special education process.
- Michelle Stevenson – Early Childhood Coordinator – Michelle works with families to monitor the development of children from prenatal through 6 years old. Her program encourages and equips parents to help children meet their developmental milestones. Parent/Child Cafe last week was very successful, a KU grant made family stipends possible.
- Janelle Tate – Early Childhood Block Grant
- Kelli Mengarelli – Early Childhood Block Grant – Works with preschools, child care centers, and home providers in 6 counties.
- Program:
Pamela Thompson – Family Resource Center – Family Strong Community Outreach Liaison
Pamela and the Family Strong program work with family resource advocates to find resources for families. The program is funded through a grant from KU, one of only 6 in the country. Pamela has been working with USD 234 for the last two years. The district and area partners have developed a student support team to directly impact students and families. Pamela has worked with Core Communities and the Kansas Children’s Service League to develop a discussion (training) to train volunteers in the community. Hope into Action Bourbon County Resilience Summit will take place September 2nd from 6:30-7:30, and September 6th from 9:00-4:00 at Fort Scott Church of the Nazarene. The discussion will focus on ACES, Hope Scale, and building Resilience. Organizers are encouraging any and all families and professionals to attend. Pamela offered a special thank you to HBCAT for offering some radio time to promote the Hope Into Action Summit. There will be a resource table at the September 6th meeting if anyone would like to bring goodies to share for the table.
The Family Strong program works to prevent abuse and neglect of children. Anyone 0-18 can qualify for services through Family Strong. Stephanie Breckenridge is the contact person for Bourbon County. KU sensemaking sessions have been taking place this summer. Everyone is encouraged to share their story, the good, bad, and ugly.
- Open Forum: Nothing further came before the membership.
- Adjournment: The next General Membership meeting will be September 3, 2025.
Non-Profit Media Relations Workshop is August 14

Hip-Hop Dance Masterclass Offered on August 16

About the Event & Instructor
This will be a one-day class led by Lukky, a professional hip-hop dancer, choreographer, and instructor based out of Kansas City, according to Leslie Godden who has facilitated the event.
“Lukky has been my daughter Kenna’s hip-hop teacher since she was 9 years old. He’s signed with the same talent agency as Kenna, and his experience includes traveling the U.S. to train, teach, and judge at dance competitions, working on music video sets for famous artists, commercials, and more. He also runs his own dance company, I-Push, which focuses on inspiring dancers to find their inner performer and reach their full potential.
“Two years ago, Lukky taught a class here in Fort Scott, and I’ve been working to bring him back ever since. We’re excited to finally make it happen!
Why This Matters to the Community
“Kenna has been able to dance, work, and perform with incredible artists thanks to the support of the Fort Scott community. This event is our way to give back and bring a unique dance experience to our hometown—an opportunity that doesn’t come around often here.”
Class Details
📅 Date: Saturday, August 16
🕒 Time: BEGINNERS – 1:00–2:00PM INTERMEDIATE/ADVANCED – 2:00–3:30PM
📍 Location: River Room Event Center | 3 W. Oak St.
🎟 Cost & Registration: BEGINNERS – 1:00–2:00PM – $20! INTERMEDIATE/ADVANCED – $30! Both Classes: $40
Parents, snag a WATCH BAND for $10 & cheer your dancer from the floor!
Additional class breakdown is available in the flyer attached.
I’ve also attached a list of FAQ’s that I typically get for dance events like this.

What’s Happening in Fort Scott August 8 Edition
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USD234 Board of Education Agenda For August 11
BOARD OF EDUCATION REGULAR MEETING
August 11, 2025 – 5:30 P.M.
AGENDA SUMMARY WITH COMMENTARY
1.0 Call Meeting to Order David Stewart, President
2.0 Flag Salute
3.0 Approval of the Official Agenda (Action Item)
4.0 Approval of the Consent Agenda (Action Item)
4.1 Board Minutes
07-14-25
4.2 Financials – Cash Flow Report
4.3 Check Register
4.4 Payroll – July 18, 2025 – $1,681,850.38
4.5 Activity Funds Accounts
4.6 USD 234 Gifts
4.7 Resolution 25-08 – Remove Bank Signers
4.8 Resolution 25-09 – Add Bank Signers
5.0 Leadership Reports (Information/Discussion Item)
5.1 Superintendent’s Report (Destry)
5.2 Assistant Superintendent’s Report (Zach)
5.3 Assistant Superintendent’s Report (Terry)
5.4 Special Education Director’s Report
6.0 New Business
6.1 2025-26 High School Handbook (Action) Handbook Edits
6.2 Parent Expectation Policy (Action)
6.3 2025-2026 Preliminary Budget Report with Needs Assessment (Info only)
6.4 2025-2026 Preliminary Budget Presentation
6.5 Audit Contract with Diehl, Banwart, and Bolton, CPA’s, P.A. (Action)
6.6 MOU for IT Services between USD 234 and City of Fort Scott (Action)
6.7 All-Weather Track Structural Spray Bids (Action)
6.8 Purchase of Transit Van (Action)
7.0 Public Forum
8.0 Other Business – Personnel Matters – Time __________
8.1 Enter Executive Session – Personnel Matters (Action Item)
8.2 Exit Executive Session – _______ (Time)
8.3 Approval of Personnel Report (Action Item)
9.0 Adjourn Meeting _____ (Time) David Stewart, President
Today From The Kansas Supreme Court
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8 Tips to Protect Your Family, Community and Wallet

Kansas Gas Service is encouraging safe digging on 811 Day
Ahead of 811 Day, recognized on Aug. 11, Kansas Gas Service encourages everyone planning any outdoor projects to consider how to dig safely before they begin.
Kansas law requires residents to call 811 or submit a request online at Kansas811.com before starting any digging project to help protect themselves, their property and their community. Kansas Gas Service highlights 8 safe digging tips, 1 important reminder and 1 essential number to call—not just on Aug. 11, but all year long.
8 Safe Digging Tips and Reasons to Call 811
- Plan ahead. Gather all the details of your property and project and call 811 or submit a request online at least two business days ahead of when you plan to start digging.
- Safety first. You may not think you need to contact 811 – but you probably do. For digging projects big or small, from installing a mailbox to building a deck or planting a tree, contact 811 to be safe.
- Be a good neighbor. No one wants to lose service – especially in the August heat. Hitting a buried line in your yard could wipe out service for your entire neighborhood. Contact 811 and be patient until the utilities crews arrive to mark your project area with colored flags or paint.
- Keep pets inside. They may want to say hello to utility crews marking lines outside, but it’s safest for everyone if they stay secure indoors.
- Color match. Understand what the different colors of flags or paint in your yard mean. For example, natural gas lines are marked with yellow flags. Learn more here.
- Leave flags alone. It’s best to leave the flags in place throughout your digging project to be sure you don’t accidentally hit any lines.
- Dig carefully. Make sure to dig at least 24 inches away from the flags in order to avoid inadvertently hitting a line. This is called the “tolerance zone.”
- Start with peace of mind. By contacting 811 and knowing where the lines are buried in your yard, you can rest assured that you’ve done what’s necessary to start your project on the right foot and keep everyone safe.
One Takeaway, One Number to Call
Safety is always the top priority. No matter the size of your project, failing to contact 811 can lead to serious injury if you hit a buried line, service disruptions and legal consequences for breaking the law. It can also cause delays or require repairs to your home project—unexpected costs that can add up quickly. Using the free 811 service helps keep you safe, your project on track and your wallet protected.
About Kansas Gas Service
Kansas Gas Service provides a reliable and affordable energy choice to more than 648,000 customers in Kansas and is the largest natural gas distributor in the state in terms of customers. Headquartered in Overland Park, Kansas Gas Service is a division of ONE Gas, Inc. (NYSE: OGS), a 100-percent regulated natural gas utility that trades on the New York Stock Exchange under the symbol “OGS.” ONE Gas is included in the S&P MidCap 400 Index and is one of the largest natural gas utilities in the United States. For more information and the latest news about Kansas Gas Service, visit kansasgasservice.com and follow its social channels: @KansasGas, Facebook, Nextdoor, LinkedIn and YouTube.
A Once In A Lifetime Opportunity by Patty LaRoche

Author: A Little Faith Lift…Finding Joy Beyond Rejection
www.alittlefaithlift.com
AWSA (Advanced Writers & Speakers Assoc.)
It’s a duck call to a mallard, a 75% off Instagram sale to a shopaholic, a box of Godiva chocolates to most of my friends. Irresistible. Enticing. A guaranteed, surefire, “once in a lifetime opportunity.” Never has a friend’s “O-I-A-L-O” investment given me anything but a migraine and a depleted bank account. The invitation to ride a donkey to the depths of the Grand Canyon on a path only inches wider than the beast’s belly doesn’t mean I saddle up. And how many sets of knives do I need as a result of the “special ends in one hour” ploy? Once-in-a-lifetime-opportunities have led to bankruptcy, divorce and even death (in which case, granted, the definition is literal).
Now, do I believe there are legitimate “once-in-a-lifetime” opportunities? Absolutely. Every day God allows us to cross paths with people we will never see again who need to hear the gospel. Our family’s trip to the mission field in Africa taught me that doing without “things” gives me time to hang with God. Spending hours every day with my mother in the nursing home showed me how fragile life can be and how those who dined with her one meal can have funerals a few days later. There were chances to talk to them about Jesus.
Sometimes I did. But not always. After all, there’s always tomorrow…
Now, that’s foolishness. The Bible is chock full of decisions that had to be made on the spot, but Matthew 25 is a great analogy of the need for immediacy. Ten virgins have carried their lamps to meet the bridegroom. Only five took extra oil with them. When the bridegroom failed to show up, the ten fell asleep, waking only when he was a short distance away. The foolish virgins found their lamps dimming and asked for the wise to share. Let’s pick it up in verse nine.
“‘No,’ they replied, ‘there may not be enough for both us and you. Instead, go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’ But while they were on their way to buy the oil, the bridegroom arrived. The virgins who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet. And the door was shut. Later the others also came. ‘Lord, Lord,’ they said, ‘open the door for us!’ “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I don’t know you.’ Therefore keep watch, because you do not know the day or the hour.”
The point cannot be dismissed.
If we dilly-dally, thinking we’ll make Jesus our Lord “someday,” we are fools. This day, this moment, might be our only chance to take Jesus up on his offer. As for guaranteed, surefire “once-in-a-lifetime” opportunities, it doesn’t get much more legitimate than that.











