Keys to the Kingdom

By Carolyn Tucker

 

 

I’ve been providing music for funerals since the early 1970s and I always consider it an honor to be involved in a loved one’s service.  Just when I thought I’d seen and heard it all, I found out I hadn’t. A funeral is no different from any other event that involves people. People are unpredictable, like cattle, and you can never be sure exactly what’s going to happen. Last summer, I played and sang two songs at a lovely memorial service for a dear lady I’d known for many years. I had noticed there was a little girl about two years old that was a bit rowdy, but cute as a bug’s ear. After I finished singing “Peace in the Valley,” I heard her loud and enthusiastic response of “YAY!” There were a few soft chuckles and I couldn’t help but grin from ear to ear as I cleared the piano bench. Nope, I didn’t see that coming, but it sure was funny.

 

I wonder if we shouldn’t be more like this little girl. She simply responded with her mouth what she was feeling on the inside. As believers, we have so many good things to yell about. Jesus lovingly used a little child to teach His disciples a big lesson. “Jesus called a little one to His side and said to them, ‘Learn this well: Unless you dramatically change your way of thinking and become teachable, and learn about heaven’s kingdom realm with the wide-eyed wonder of a child, you will never be able to enter in’” (Matthew 18:3 TPT). The people of Judah enthusiastically gave God the glory due to His great name. “And the Levites, of the Kohathites and the Korahites, stood up to praise the Lord, the God of Israel, with a very loud voice” (2 Chronicles 20:19 ESV).

 

God created us as three-part beings: spirit, soul, and body. When it comes to the death of a loved one, it affects our spirit and soul. When a loved one dies in Christ, those left behind  understand and rejoice in their spirit that he/she is now in heaven. But when it comes to our soul (mind, will, emotions) we deeply mourn for our loss. But we‘re not on our own in this restoration process. “God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted” (Matthew 5:4 NLT). This is a “YAY” promise we can take to the bank!

 

I grew up singing in a church that didn’t have a PA system, so I learned to belt it out. Although my mom had a quiet disposition, everything my dad did was loud. We’re born with unchangeable characteristics (like brown eyes) and our personalities are also formed in the womb. I took after Dad with the loud, so it comes natural for me to freely express myself like the little girl at the funeral. I could never hold down a job at the library — I’m sure I’d get fired after the first day. Here are two wonderful scriptures that are worth yelling about: “I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in Him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit” (Romans 15:13 NLT).

 

“Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again — rejoice! Don‘t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:4,6,7 NLT).

 

The Key: Having peace in the valley and on the mountaintop is something to yell about.